refactor: convert to bun-workspaces monorepo (desktop/ + www/)

- Move the Tauri app (React frontend + Rust backend) into desktop/ via
  git mv — configs unchanged (relative paths: tauri.conf.json, vite.config.ts)
- Root package.json becomes a private bun workspace container with
  orchestration scripts; desktop package renamed gridline-desktop
- Scaffold www/ with Astro 7 + Tailwind v4 (hand-wired vite plugin,
  static output, ready for Dokploy)
- Update release.yml for the new layout: projectPath: desktop,
  desktop/src-tauri resource paths, rust-cache workspace path
- Update README + AGENTS.md structure trees and dev commands
- Verified: vitest (1074), cargo test (354), desktop build, tauri dev
  (window launches), tauri build (dmg + app bundles), Astro build

desktop/src-tauri/.gitignore

@@ -0,0 +1,7 @@
+# Generated by Cargo
+# will have compiled files and executables
+/target/
+
+# Generated by Tauri
+# will have schema files for capabilities auto-completion
+/gen/schemas